I had started the list, but decided to go with another approach. Please note the goal is get you “Valentine’s Day Ready” to find and date your match by you already knowing what is it you are looking for.
A great article to refer you too is written by Mohan Kumar http://docmo.hubpages.com/hub/Teaching-and-Assessing-Attitudes on how our beliefs are shaped. I highly suggest reading.
In the meantime, here’s two dating videos for you. If you have any questions, let me know!